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Anonymous
Oct 30th, 2008
10:13 AM
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There Was A Very Interesting Post...

There was a very interesting post yesterday concerning raising children. I think it might be just as interesting if some of you we have gotten to know shared how you were brought up and how your parents related to you.
My parents were both very strict and I always felt that fact hindered me somewhat.

Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 10:17 AM EDT
Time to stand up and take responsibility for yourself, author. It's easy to blame someone else for your shortcomings. I'm sorry that you feel hindered, but stop passing the buck and fucking get yourself unhindered:roll:
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 10:32 AM EDT
yeah quit your fucking whining.
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 10:51 AM EDT
I was referring to hindered in the way of some social development. I assure both of you that I most likely pay more in taxes than the two of you earn a year and I hardly feel sorry for myself in any way.
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 11:06 AM EDT
Now if that isn't a classic statement. How would you know how much anyone earns. You are right! You are very much hindered. Your stupidity is showing:roll:
Someone special commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 11:28 AM EDT
Well, this post went to hell in a hurry... :-(
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 11:30 AM EDT
ur fucking special alright.:twisted:
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 11:32 AM EDT
Not my stupidity but yours is showing. I think what I said knowing the facts of my own income more than warrants the statement. I assure you my statement has a 99.9 percent chance of being fact even if the two are very successful Dr.s or lawyers.
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 11:51 AM EDT
yeah, phil. we know all about it. go suck your dick you useless piece of crap.
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 12:54 PM EDT
Excellent point, Midas. Money is not everything. In fact, it is nothing if you have no love in your life.
Author commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 2:37 PM EDT
Midas how wrong you are. I asked this question to stimulate conversation about peoples lives and what they feel they had to overcome. I sure don't feel sorry for myself nor do I think my worth is measured by money. I asked a simple question to hear stories about others and as is usual was met with insults such as yours. Havea nice day and try to act a bit more civil towards people. It's not really that hard.
If anyone is interested in answering my original question I would appreciate their response.
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 3:03 PM EDT
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO someone comes here asking a great question and is met with hateful comments by people who claim to have love in their life. This people is a Roo classic. :mrgreen::mrgreen:
Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Thursday, October 30th, 2008, 8:21 PM EDT
It's not as easy as some thought to make a post for folks to comment on without it turning to kaka.
Author, it was a good attempt at what could have been a very interesting topic
helping hand commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Friday, October 31st, 2008, 1:37 AM EDT
I think I was raised in a household similar to many of my generation (I'm 42) in as that it was a pretty strict household where if you broke a rule or mouthed off you got a whoopin'.

As with many, my parents were divorced, mine by the time I was one. My Dad was not a part of my life (found out later Mom didn't allow it). Mom remarried when I was 7. He was an only child, used to being the center of attention...and wanted it to stay that way. He was also a racist. We clashed right from the beginning, lol. They had 2 kids together.

During my childhood, I generally didn't feel supported or loved...mostly felt judged and like a bother and disappointment.

I left home when I was 16. Told Mom I was leaving and that I'd call on certain nights to let her know I was okay. Family didn't want me going back home and flew me out to California, where I've been since.

It's been a loooong hard road mending things with Mom...and there's still a long way to go.

She had me too young. Had a lot of her own problems which she didn't get to work out, as she became a Mom. It was a hard road and did the best she could considering.

My step-dad passed away a few months ago. I still don't know my Dad, tho I hope to one day.

For years after I left home, I'd let people walk on me. Wasn't used to having a real option. Eventually, I started believing in myself, what I deserved and the way I should be treated. I stopped taking crap from people.

One of the things that I learned from my childhood is to not judge what I did not KNOW. It's why I try really hard to give people the benefit of the doubt and to see their perspective.

In raising my children, it would have been easy to go the opposite extreme that Mom did and be too lenient. But I really try to keep a balance...loving and supportive, while insisting on respect and responsibility. There are areas that I struggle in and areas that I'm confident in. Most importantly, my kids know they're loved no matter what.:-D


Anonymous commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Friday, October 31st, 2008, 9:34 AM EDT
be supportive and go suck some cock hh and check out mh's pussy while ur at it :roll:
Author commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Friday, October 31st, 2008, 1:20 PM EDT
Thank you Helping Hand. Your response was exactly the type thing I was looking for when making this post.
When i said my parents were too strict and that it hindered my socially I was referring to them not letting me or my younger sister play basketball,track,cheerlead,or do any after school activities.
While live and love has worked out quite well for me it hasn't been quite so for my sister. Her not being able to do anything socially left her very unprepared for life when she went to college.
?????????? commented on There Was A Very Interesting Post
Friday, October 31st, 2008, 9:11 PM EDT
Just curious, what tax bracket are you in Author?
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