Is it too much to be accepted as you are - why do I have to change to be loved ?
imaginarylover. commented on Grrrr.... Partner
Monday, June 4th, 2012, 9:27 AM EDT
You dont. Just be yourself.Theres somebody for everybody.If people dont like you the way you are, fuck em and move on.
Anonymous commented on Grrrr.... Partner
Monday, June 4th, 2012, 9:45 AM EDT
Take IL's advice and if you're an asshole you could be spending the rest of your miserable life alone. Not a pretty option.Just ask a few that are in that predicament.
If you know in your own heart you are a good person, then NO you don't have to change, if someone wishes to change you then they are controlling and you're better off out of that.
I agree with the IL comment.
Seems to me you haven't met the right one if they don't accept you as you are, have standards and hold out for someone who will love you as you are! Good luck!
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hd commented on Grrrr.... Partner
Tuesday, June 5th, 2012, 5:47 AM EDT
Hell yeah, change. Are you alone because you're goofy?
I agree with the IL comment.
Seems to me you haven't met the right one if they don't accept you as you are, have standards and hold out for someone who will love you as you are! Good luck!